How do you reduce stress, achieve your goals, have healthy relationships, raise great kids, start or run a business, lose weight (Or anything else, for that matter)?

You DON'T if you don't have healthy BOUNDARIES!

Erin Ortiqeaux


What would your life look like if you were less stressed, more confident, and more authentic?

"Your young self told you a story, a lie, and you still believe it's true!" 

And that lie has likely led to you living a life that falls short of your dreams. Are You My Boundary will empower you to embrace the real you, acknowledge and understand what is holding you back, and breakthrough to build and live a gratifying life.

Most people confuse healthy boundaries with the ability to say NO. They associate setting boundaries with anxiety, guilt, and frustration.

The truth is, setting boundaries reduces stress, eliminates drama, increases productivity, builds confidence, and helps you 



And I can show you how.

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Hi! I'm Erin.

And I'm living proof that you can live your best life... using BOUNDARIES!

I’m a wife, mom,  daughter,  friend, boss, author, mentor, speaker, entrepreneur, coach, and strategist. That's a lot on my plate, right? 

It sure is! But I wouldn't change a thing. My mission is to help other women build lives they love just as I love mine. If that sounds like you, keep reading. You won't be disappointed.

Do you worry too much or procrastinate? Are you tired of being stressed out? Are your relationships reciprocal and fulfilling, or draining and drama-filled?

Sign up for my author newsletter and get my FREE 6 Step Process to setting and maintaining boundaries while reducing your stress.


Don't worry, I won't spam you. I just want to keep you informed as to when the book is coming out and give you some much-needed tips, tools, and inspiration so you can live your best life.

What would your life look like if you were less stressed, more confident, and more authentic?


If you want to figure out how to #Havelessstress, I’m your girl. If you want to #Bemoreproductive. I've got you. If you want to #Stopfeelingguilty. I hear ya. News flash: You don’t have to tolerate a life filled with stress, drama, chaos, negativity, or anxiety. You don't have to live your life feeling exhausted and drained. You don't have to push your own feelings, needs, desires, and dreams aside in order to be accepted and loved. Living like that is not a badge of honor; it’s a sign that something in your life is broken. And I can help.

If you’re an entrepreneur—I can teach you the tools, habits, and mindset tweaks you need to #Takeittothenextlevel. That's if you want to reach and surpass your goals. I will warn you, I believe, and I am the perfect walking talking example, that in order to build and grow a healthy sustainable business you have to grow as a person. And I can show you exactly how.

If you have relationship struggles—or are trying to find the perfect mate—I can share with you how I have built, with the help of my husband, of course, a ridiculously happy 32-year marriage to my best friend. Even though we have distinctly different personalities, upbringings, and life goals. There is an art to happy, healthy reciprocal personal relationships. And I can show you how to build them. 

If you are looking to build your confidence and improve your work or career. Including your professional relationships, I can help. You don't have to hate your job or dread going to work. We spend nearly a third of our lives working, we should enjoy it. And I can show you how.

I hope you’ll come to think of me as your friend and ally. I hope you will trust that you can learn from my mistakes and hard-earned wisdom and use the tools I give you to design the life you really want.  

I want to help you stop settling and start thinking bolder and braver about what your life can look like. The key to achieving your potential and your dreams isn’t to measure your life against the life of others or battle your fears and insecurities. The key is to define your choices based on your intentions. I can show you how. How does that sound?

Do you worry too much or procrastinate? Are you tired of being stressed out? Are your relationships reciprocal and fulfilling, or draining and drama-filled?


Then YOU are in the right place.

Look no further.

You have probably been thinking about making a change for a long time, but you just didn't know-how. I'm so glad you landed in my backyard because I can help.

Life Strategist

I'm Erin Ortiqeaux, As a Strategic Interventionist, my focus is on helping people live their best lives.


I use a Coaching system based on the belief in every individual to build/rebuild and live the life they want.


I’m here to help you reclaim your dreams, discover your strengths, and rebuild the life YOU want on your terms.


I can give you the tools you need to build the life of your dreams!






What coaching does is help you create the kind of change you want in your life but just don’t quite know how to make happen. 


Coaching helps you to gain clarity of the results you are wanting, open you to new possibilities, and support you with a personalized strategic plan to get you where you want to go. All I need from you is an open mind and the decision to move forward with your dreams.


Life is a game, right? As with any game, if you have a coach with knowledge, experience, insight, practical skills, and trust-worthy reliable support on your road to success (winning the game) it is much easier, smoother, and much more enjoyable and rewarding.


Coaches help you design a plan to reach your goals, keep you focused on your plan, and on track to your desired results. Whether it's relationship troubles, professional struggles, or personal growth, a coach is on the sidelines for you so you can be in the game giving it your all with the tools, skills, and support you need ready and available along the way.


You won't have to worry about struggling on your own and ending up giving up out of frustration or despair.


Often when we have given up in frustration we tell ourselves it is because we aren’t smart enough to figure it out, not competent enough to achieve it, too lazy to keep trying, or not good enough to deserve it. None of this is true. You simply need the right information, unconditional support, a personalized strategy, and time carved out to work on yourself, your life, your relationships, and your happiness.


Coaching helps you become the leader of your life and the creator of your lifestyle of love, satisfaction, and fulfillment.


As your Relationship Coach & Life Strategist, you can rely on me to be your trusted ally while still holding you accountable to your highest good with unconditional and unbiased support and encouragement to keep you on track healing, growing, evolving, and moving toward your desired outcome and greater results.


Sometimes when you lose sight of who you are, what you are made of, what you are capable of, and what your dreams are, it only takes one other person to believe in you and reflect back to you who you are.

That is my mission as your Coach. To show support and belief in you until you find belief in yourself.


Contact me today for your FREE strategy session.


Erin Ortiqeaux is a personal development author and coach whose work features practical, applicable, and thought-provoking tools for living your best life. Her first book, Are You My Boundary, is a personal rendition of the path to healing from a lifetime of people-pleasing....even for those who aren't aware that they have boundary troubles.

What will your life look like in ten years if you
change, NOTHING?


Shifting patterns and habits that have lasted a lifetime requires modifying how you interpret the world around you. Not just the will power to say NO and stick to it.

Every time you let self-doubt call the shots, every time you second guess yourself it reinforces the lies. The lies you have believed from a very young age. Every time you bite your tongue, allow negativity, or procrastinate it erodes your self-confidence. It creates an environment where self-trust is elusive.


Are You My Boundary is written with compassion, humor, and tough love. It is also grounded in decades of research. The 6 principles I have developed in this book will give you the tools and techniques you need to pursue relationships that enhance your life and reduce stress. Those same tools will give you the skills to step into your potential and thrive amid the challenges that are currently holding you back.

Don't worry it's not too late to...

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  • You worry all the time about what others think.

  • You want to improve your relationships.

  • You feel unhappy or stuck.

  • You often ask yourself “Is this all there is?”.

  • You worry a lot.

  • You look at other people who seem happy and wonder where you went wrong.

  • You feel like something is holding you back from being more authentic and reaching your dreams and goals.

  • You have trouble reassessing life goals and developing a plan to achieve those goals in a timely manner.

  • You often feel overwhelmed.

  • You have difficulty asserting yourself or avoid conflict.

  • You need to reduce stress and increase productivity.

  • You give to everyone but yourself.

  • You say YES more often than you truly want to.

  • Procrastination has become a way of life.

  • You feel like asking for help seems selfish.

  • You feel burnt out or filled with stress and anxiety.

  • You want to feel more confident.

  • You second guess yourself often.

  • You have toxic people in your life who are negative.

  • Your emotions often define your choices.

  • You find yourself making excuses for unmet goals or for other people's behavior.

  • You struggle with prioritizing.

  • You have difficulty dealing with stressful situations.

  • You avoid uncertain outcomes.

I can help you:

  • Identify the self-sabotaging thoughts, excuses, and behaviors that are holding you back.

  • Reduce stress, build your self-confidence, and find your secret to happiness.

  • Develop reciprocal rewarding relationships.

  • Stop feeling overwhelmed and increase productivity.

  • Stop feeling guilty for making yourself a priority.

  • Achieve your goals reliably.

  • Live authentically without apologies.








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Right now, you are sitting there asking yourself if you should read yet another self-help book. You are probably wondering if it would really help or even make a difference in your life.  I can tell you that millions of people around the globe struggle with boundary issues and DO NOT KNOW IT. And you might be one of them, regardless of how successful you may be, both personally and professionally.


That's right. There are people out there that are completely unaware that they have boundary related struggles in their lives. They often think, "My husband or partner is just a jerk, or my kids are so demanding, or my boss refuses to pay me what I am worth, or my schedule is just so jam-packed that I have no time for myself." Or perhaps they procrastinate, make excuses for not reaching goals, tolerate relationships that add stress to their lives or put more on their plate than they should. There are countless other reasons that their lives are filled with stress, drama, and chaos. Reasons that their lives are determined rather than intentional.

"I don’t know the facts behind the stories you've endured. But I do know that the meaning you assigned to your stories is likely skewed because of your young minds’ inability to discern the truth. I also know that the meaning you assigned to your stories is probably not leaning towards your intention of happiness either."

To understand boundaries, one needs to know ONE thing...It is all about acceptance.

How one pursues acceptance and ultimately love is determined by a decision. A decision to allow their stories to define their choices. Or a decision to require their choices to write their stories.

In this refreshingly honest and entertaining how-to guide, personal development coach, and recovering people-pleaser, Erin Ortiqeaux shares her unconventional approach to setting boundaries. She understands your struggles because she’s faced—and overcome—her own. And she knows that healthy boundaries are the key to finding happiness and success.


Her research-based process, combined with first-hand experiences, will help give you clarity and perspective and equip you with the tools and skills you need to build a life you love. She uses proven strategies, practical, intuitive exercises, inspiring stories, brutal truths, a little tough love, and easy daily practices to help you change your life for good.


So if you are wondering: HOW you: Reduce stress, build self-confidence, have a great marriage, get that promotion, start a business, find the perfect mate, plan the perfect wedding, raise self-confident kids, lose weight (Or anything else, for that matter)?

You START by setting BOUNDARIES!

So, now ask yourself if any of these sound familiar. If so...Then yes, you should read

Are You My Boundary?


With bold truth and decisive conviction, Are You My Boundary shows you how to live your best life--how to ditch the guilt and have reciprocal, fulfilling relationships along the way.

Women are always telling me that the biggest obstacle they face, on a daily basis with regard to reaching their potential and being all that they were created to be is themselves.  They just don't know why or how to fix it.

As women, we long to succeed, and yet we can't seem to silence the voice inside us that whispers, "You are not ENOUGH." Are You My Boundary explores not only the real reasons behind why we struggle with self-doubt, self-esteem, and confidence issues, but it also digs into why we tolerate our lives rather than intentionally build them.  I also show you how to break the cycle of guilt and shame finally build a life that excites you. 

So whether you have struggled for years with self-esteem or self-confidence issues or simply want to improve your ability to show up for yourself in your own life, Are You My Boundary will inspire, encourage, and most importantly give you the tools you need to stop holding yourself back and start living with intention, conviction, and joy.

DON'T MISS OUT! Get notified when ARE YOU MY BOUNDARY is released!
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